about tori
Hi, I’m Tori — professional connection cultivator, inner critic whisperer, and founder of DiscovHer Connections.
I’m also a woman who spent 20+ years raising kids, pouring into everyone else, and suddenly found herself staring at a quiet house… and wondering where she went.
Let me tell you—I tried doing all the “right” things.
The productivity hacks. The self-help books. The endless volunteering, hobby collecting, and signing up for things that didn’t light me up.
Everyone said, “This is your time!”
But honestly?
It didn’t feel like mine.
It felt confusing, lonely, and weirdly flat.
“I just need to figure out who I am now.”
That was the sentence I kept whispering to myself when no one was around. But every time I tried to find “me,” I hit a wall. Because here's what no one tells you: It’s really hard to rediscover yourself when you’re still carrying everyone else’s expectations.
I kept thinking the problem was me. Like I just wasn’t trying hard enough to be joyful. Or grateful. Or fulfilled by the same old stuff that used to work.
I thought something was wrong with me because I didn’t want to “reinvent” myself—I wanted to stop pretending and actually feel like me again.
Then it hit me like a truth bomb wrapped in glitter:
I didn’t need to become someone new—I needed to come home to myself.
And THAT changed everything.
I stopped chasing the shoulds.
I stopped settling for surface-level friendships.
I stopped trying to fit into spaces that were never made for me.
Instead, I created my own.
BUT I'VE DISCOVERED
That what midlife women are really craving isn’t a makeover or a morning routine.
We’re craving connection. Connection to ourselves. To each other. To the woman we used to be—and the one we’re still becoming.
So I built DiscovHer Connections as a place to make that happen. Not just another group. Not just another coach. A real-deal sisterhood for women ready to stop shrinking and start showing up.
Now? I’m on a mission to help other women like me.
The ones who feel a little lost, a little lonely, a little unsure—but still have a fire in their belly and a dream whispering, “There’s more for you.” I’m not here to hand you a step-by-step plan or preach from a stage. I’m walking beside you in the messy middle—with a whole lotta humor, heart, and healing along the way.
Here’s how I can help you reconnect, realign, and rediscover YOU:
Find Your People $9/month
Friendship shouldn’t feel like networking or high school all over again. Inside DiscovHer Friends, you'll get matched with other women, join live calls, and build meaningful friendships—without the pressure.
Know, Love, Be: The Journey Back to You
(Coming soon)
Ready to remember who you are and what you want? This course + live coaching experience walks you through the 3 stages of midlife reinvention:
Know Her. Love Her. Be Her.
It’s like therapy and coffee with a best friend had a baby.
Coming Soon — get on the waitlist!
Personal Coaching
If you want support tailored just for you—this is where we get deep. I’ll help you untangle the noise, make space for what matters, and take small steps that change everything.
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